In the age of
text messaging and rushed emails, a love letter, especially a handwritten one,
is a rare and special treat.
Writing the perfect
love letter can sometimes be a challenge. After all, love is an emotion, and it
can be extremely difficult to accurately transcribe your emotions into a
meaningful set of words. Yes it is easy to spell out the words “I love you”,
but these words are relatively hollow without a little contextual
substantiation.
3 Simple
Questions
So, how do
you prove our love without writing a lengthy novel depicting every detail of
your relationship? It’s actually quite simple. Just ask yourself 3 questions:
- What feelings are inspiring me to write this love letter?
- If I write only one short paragraph expressing my love, how will I convince my significant other that this paragraph is all I needed to write?
- What will this one paragraph say?
STEPS IN WRITING THE PERFECT LOVE LETTER:
1.
Choose a nice paper or
stationery. Don’t email a love letter. Give the person something they can
touch, feel, and even tuck into their pillow at night. It's best
to write on plain paper that has either a simple, calming color.
2.
Set the mood. Go somewhere quiet, put on some romantic music, and dim the
lights. Make sure you won’t be interrupted. If you have
a song or album that reminds you of the person, put it on. It will help you
conjure up memories and feelings.
3. Use an intimate salutation. Address the person
as “beloved,” “dearest,” “beautiful,” “most cherished,” or, if appropriate, a
pet name. If you are already in a romantic relationship, you can say “my".
4.
Think of a time when you felt
particularly moved by seeing your loved one, no matter how small the event. Recall the moment in vivid detail. Remember the emotional and physical feelings you experienced in that
moment. Then, write a description of that moment including details about your
feelings at the time.
5.
Tell the person what you
appreciate most about them. Tell her all the things you love about her. Think about her physical characteristics, her personality, her character, and all the wonderful things she does for you. Is it their compassion? Thankfulness? Beauty? Sense
of humor? Humility? Resourcefulness? How do they make you feel every day? Write about a combination of attributes to let this person know that you appreciate them on a number of
levels.
6.
Write about the future. Reaffirm your love and commitment. If
you’re confessing your feelings for the first time, admit how giddy you are
every time you know you’re about to see them again. If you’re apart, describe
all the things you want to do together when you’re reunited. If you’re
committed, discuss some goals, dreams, and fantasies you have about your future
life together.
7.
Sign the letter. Suitable sign
offs include “Yours,” “Yours Forever,” “XOXO,” “Kisses,” “Love,” and “Love
Always.” If applicable, include a pet name, inside joke, or even a reply to a
long-unanswered question to make it more personal.
8.
Add a personal touch. Put
lipstick on and kiss the paper, spray the perfume or cologne you always wear on
the paper, or trace your hand on the back so that the other person can hold
their hand up to yours.
*Photos are not mine.
*Here are the references I have cited:
http://www.loveletters.com/love-letter-guide.html
https://www.google.com.ph/search?q=how+to+write+a+love+letter&espv=210&es_sm=93&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=2M3oUqKYH4qeiQeR_4HYBg&ved=0CAkQ_AUoAQ&biw=1366&bih=667
http://www.artofmanliness.com/2009/06/27/30-days-to-a-better-man-day-28-write-a-love-letter/
I like it.I remember back in high school I used to received this kind of letter. Cellphones were still expensive at that time. But despite this modern technologies personal letters and cards should still be practice. I think receiving love letters written in stationery are more romantic and appealing than receiving a text from an unlimited subscribed phone. Very nice blog Biancs it is a good way to encourage readers to write again using pen and paper.
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